If you want to use condoms, start your own website and work exclusively from there. The people who run this industry don’t care if you live or die because there’s always a younger and better looking person right behind you waiting to take your place. I’m not saying this to be mean. I’m saying this to save you.
No one that runs this industry cares about you. They will turn on you, your friends will one by one turn on you, and you’ll be labeled difficult & crazy if you complain. There are no such things as real friends in this industry. Just associates. It’s rare to find a real true friend in the industry. They are out there. But more often than not, they’re using you for their own agenda.
If you were smart, this newest HIV case would be a wake-up call for you and you would all leave this industry. You’re a product to the people who run this industry and you will be thrown away when they’re finished with you. This industry has destroyed much bigger names. Leave now while you still can.