My detailed account of how Monica Foster turned on me and lost her fucking mind.


Opinion/Editorial

I know this blog post is very long. But I want to detail everything that’s happened so no one will think I turned on Monica Foster who I had considered a friend. She turned on me, many others, and throws around these wild accusations all while trying to play victim. So when you have some free time, just please read my entire blog post. I’m sure i forgot to add other things but I’ll make more blog posts throughout the week if I have to. Thank you.

I first heard about Monica Foster two and a half years ago on XPT when there were stories of her returning to porn, retiring, and returning & retiring from the industry. I started reading her blog and I would link to her stories many times.

Throughout this time, we would talk on XPT, she would comment on my blog, and we would talk on Twitter. I would try to help her and give her advise on how to promote herself, her websites, and try to be there for her with all her many problems. I especially felt sorry for her because she has no money and she would constantly talk about how she can’t afford many things or to even go to industry events, award shows, and conventions. I felt how can a woman be in this industry for over 10 years starting off as a cam girl, dancer, and porn star and have no money. So I wanted to help her because I saw a lot of potential in her.

Monica knows how to host her own websites and maintain them herself. Not that many people in this industry can do that themselves but here she can. I told her to consolidate her websites to just two or three websites instead of the dozens she seems to have. She’s spreading the traffic into many different directions. I also gave her the idea to start the black version of AVN. A woman had approached me on Twitter before asking for advice on how to start a black porn news site. I asked around if there were any black porn news sites and everyone told me no there wasn’t. So I told this woman that’s a great idea for her and I told her how to get started. She later couldn’t go through with it because of school. So I told Monica how she should start a black version of AVN. She said how that’s a great idea but she couldn’t because she was too busy.

As time went on, I would give Monica more advise and ideas but she never followed through with any of them. When she started her monicaathome.com video shows, I thought what a fabulous idea that is and how I don’t think there’s anything out there in the industry like this yet. I would promote it on my site and Twitter because I saw so much potential in it for her. She couldn’t make any money from those videos but the potential was there for something greater in the future.

I was then blown away that Monica published her first book “Getting Into Porn – The Handbook” and how proud I was of her. There aren’t that many porn stars who have a book out. Especially a book they wrote entirely themselves. She even sent me the press release first before she sent it out to the other sites. I was also on Twitter promoting it as much as I can. I believe the book is out now in store shelves.

I’ve done nothing for almost three years but try to be friends with this woman, try to help her promote her career, projects, and try to help her with all her stalker problems. I felt bad that she has no money after working hard all these years and I was trying to help her make a bigger name for herself. She knows a lot about hosting websites and maintaining them. But she doesn’t know anything about marketing and promoting herself. I’m no marketing guru. But I’ve seen and read a lot throughout the years to know what works. I don’t promote myself but my two blogs get more traffic than anything she has combined. The only thing she has more than I do are Twitter followers. But we all know many of those are spammers.

There’s a forum I won’t mention but it’s the forum out now that posts the real names of mostly female porn stars. I warned Monica who the owner of the forum is and his reputation. I told her many things he had done to the women in this industry. She was horrified by what I was telling her and she had no clue. To my surprise, she later joined that forum anyway and became an active member using her porn name. Now here’s a black female performer joining a sexist, racist, and homophobic porn forum. This forum posts the real names, date of birth, address, and phone numbers of these women and they also notify their families and their mainstream jobs. Why would Monica join this forum after being warned about them?

Monica saw no problem with this forum and became an active member. She then started complaining that this forum started to post her real name, address, phone number, her family member’s names, address, phone numbers, and criminal records. This forum was now doing to her the same exact thing she had seen them doing to all the other women in this industry. She’s then on her Twitter saying she wanted to die, she wants to kill herself, they’re trying to kill her, she’s reporting them to the police & FBI, and her family won’t talk to her because she’s embarrassed them.

So there I am trying to help Monica pick up the pieces and I was trying to give her advice as to how to stop that forum and get them shut down. I sent her all these links and told her who to call and contact. She wouldn’t listen. The reason why that forum turned on her is because she wouldn’t give them a copy of the check that Lenny Dykstra had given her. They wanted a copy of that check for their forum. She was trying to get the check from the bank but it was taking some time.

After Lenny Dykstra wrote Monica a bogus check for $1,000 after hiring her as an escort, Monica rightfully so went public with this information trying to warn other escorts to stay away from him. Her story got a lot of big mainstream press and I felt this was her big chance of trying to cash in and make as much money as she can as quickly as possible before it became old news and they went on to the next story.

Monica did two RadarOnline interviews but was never paid for them. I tried to help her and told her she needed to hire a publicist. I told her to contact Roger T. Pipe at Pipeline Multimedia for representation. I told Monica how Tiki Pavelle also works there and how I assumed she knows Tiki because she now writes a new column for AINews, where Tiki also works at. So I thought this is perfect, she needs to quickly call Roger, and try to make as much money as she can so she can finally afford to move which she had been trying to but couldn’t afford to. She never listened.

Monica’s life has now gone downhill after the Dykstra scandal because she wouldn’t give that forum a copy of the $1,000 check. The same forum she was warned about and knew fully well about what they were doing to everyone else. She’s now accusing everyone she can of either being out to get her or who the “real” owners of that forum are. She’s accused me, other porn bloggers, directors, producers, a homophobic doctor, and Shelley Lubben of plotting against her and/or being behind the forum.

But there I was still trying to help her with all her problems. I saw on that forum a link to a new blog of a woman claiming to be a new porn blogger. She made a Youtube video trashing Monica about the Dykstra scandal. I sent Monica the links to the Youtube video & blog. I wanted her to know ahead of time so she can know what’s being said about her. She loses it and says I’m on Donny Long’s side and I only sent her those links to hurt her. Everyone who knows me knows I despise Donny Long and the reasons why I do. She blocks me on Twitter and wouldn’t reply back to my email. So I here I lose who I thought was a friend, someone I talked to several times a week, and someone I had tried to help promote her career.

Monica apologized to me a week later. Everything seemed to be going well again. I saw her kissing the ass of a certain male talent/director on her Twitter. I sent her a DM warning her about him, how he treats the women in this industry, and to ask a certain female porn star about what he’s currently doing to her. Monica got upset again and once again blocked me on Twitter. This is the same man who never apologized to her when he trashed her all the time calling her unattractive, stupid, and poor. But she was apologizing to him for some other matter and kissing his ass. She’s probably desperate for work and wants him to cast her in his films though she claims to be retired & celibate.

I left a comment on LukeIsBack to someone named Michael Whiteacre saying how I don’t trust him and how I believe he’s filling Monica’s head with all these conspiracy theories about Shelley Lubben being behind that forum. Michael is also making a documentary about Shelley where he’s now resorting to stalking Shelley, her husband, and throwing in their faces their substance abuse pasts and how they were many years ago.

I started commenting on LukeIsback here to Monica first when she was telling Joe Know he’s a coward for not revealing who he is. We don’t reveal who we are because we want to protect ourselves & our families from the stalkers out there. Monica knows what that forum is doing to her and her family but she has the nerve to thumb her nose down at us for wanting to protect ourselves. So that’s why I left a comment basically telling her to shut the hell up and how what’s being done to her on that forum is her own fault and how she brought it on herself. Don’t go on a sexist, racist, and homophobic porn forum standing by watching what they’re doing to the women in this industry but then be surprised that the forum did to you what they were doing to everyone else. Why does Monica think she’s special and she wouldn’t be treated the same?

Monica also accuses Joe Know of being Shelley Lubben.

Because of my comment to Michael Whiteacre that he might be filling Monica’s head with all these conspiracy theories, she left this comment calling me a jerk, a bitch, how I was never her friend, how my blog is shit, it sucks, and my blog is half ass. She never saw a problem with my “half ass” blog when I was promoting her on it, when she would comment on it, when she would link back to it, and when she would say on her MonicaAtHome shows how my blog is one of her favorite porn news sites.

Monica claims that me, Shelley, and Joe Know have a Hitleresqe agenda. The one that seems to have a Hitleresqe agenda is Monica herself. She seems to resemble a Nazi officer who stood by watching all the abuse but stood back, did nothing, and never did anything to help anyone. This is also clear signs of being sociopath. She went to that forum knowing full well what they were doing and didn’t see any problem with their actions. She only had a problem when they did to her what they had already been doing to everyone else.

Monica now claims I’m stalking her because I read her Twitter. I read many people’s Twitters. She’s read my Twitter and has replied back many times and sent me DMs about what I’ve written. Does that mean she’s stalking me? Hey, let’s all stop going to Monica’s websites & blogs because we wouldn’t want to be known as stalkers, now would we.

Monica also claims I’m anti-porn and I label women as victims. I’ve never been anti-porn. I’m anti-industry, which she is too and has been very vocal about on her blogs. And why can’t I label anyone a victim? But here’s this lunatic crying on her Twitter wanting to kill herself, putting herself out there as the only victim, and her next book will be about the abuse she’s suffered while in the industry. She also claims she has no fear of faceless cowards but she wants to die & claims a forum is going to kill her.

Because I told Michael Whiteacre, who is now hinting at trying to find where I live, that I believed he was filling Monica’s head with all these conspiracy theories, Monica assumed that I meant I thought she was stupid and couldn’t think for herself. She’s obviously intelligent. She knows how to maintain her websites on her own and she wrote a book entirely on her own. She’s smart in many ways but dumber than a box of rocks in other ways. She’s the stupidest and dumbest person I’ve come across in these past three years in this industry. There are so many more things I could say about this woman that would make you all believe she’s from the twilight zone.

Monica then started to blackmail & threaten me on Twitter this weekend saying if I didn’t apologize to HER, that she would reveal my “real identity.” Would someone ask this delusional bitch what exactly I ever did to her? I wish I had done something to her because it would make more sense than what’s happening now. She started this countdown on her Twitter that if I didn’t apologize, that she would go public about my identity. An anonymous post on that forum appeared claiming that I’m really porn star Dave Pounder. She then posted a link from her Twitter to this new blog entry of hers revealing who she believes I really am. This clearly shows that the faceless coward is really Monica Foster who is still a member of a forum she claims is trying to kill her. She is now an anonymous member of that forum though she claims she registers everywhere as herself.

The voices in Monica’s head are telling her I’m Dave Pounder. I also read on that forum that Monica had written Dave’s real name in her blog post but had later edited it out. She complains her identity is being posted on that forum but she sees no problem in posting “my real identity” regardless if she’s edited out Dave’s real name now. So from this moment on, this worthless bitch can’t open her fucking mouth EVER AGAIN complaining about her real name being out there because she saw no problem in dragging an innocent man into all of this revealing his real name. You went on that forum knowing full well what they were doing. Now shut the fuck up bitch and take whatever is coming your way because you deserve every bit of it!!

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6 Responses to My detailed account of how Monica Foster turned on me and lost her fucking mind.

  1. frog404 says:

    I told her to consolidate her websites to just two or three websites instead of the dozens she seems to have

    Yeah, this should be obvious. Collins’s book Good to Great calls it a hedgehog concept. Monica has none.

    I sent her a DM warning her about him, how he treats the women in this industry, and to ask a certain female porn star about what he’s currently doing to her. Monica got upset again and once again blocked me on Twitter.

    Who is this?

    As time went on, I would give Monica more advise and ideas but she never followed through with any of them

    I’ve got 5,000 great ideas and no time to do them. Everybody’s like that.

    Monica then started to blackmail & threaten me on Twitter this weekend saying if I didn’t apologize to HER, that she would reveal my “real identity.”

    One part you left out here is where you started berating her publicly that night without any (at least public) antagonism from her. Don’t know what else you left out.

    The voices in Monica’s head are telling her I’m Dave Pounder.

    I’m not so entirely convinced this is wrong. I read a Dave Pounder bio today that didn’t seem so far-fetched from a Darrah one. Noticeably, Dave Pounder made a point of never doing any rough scenes with woman. That’s exactly what “Darrah” would do.

  2. Darrah Ford says:

    One part you left out here is where you started berating her publicly that night without any (at least public) antagonism from her. Don’t know what else you left out.

    I read her LukeIsBack comment to me and also her prior tweets.

  3. frog404 says:

    Well, I looked on Twitter that day before you started berating her, didn’t see anything antagonistic there.

  4. Darrah Ford says:

    You think I’m pulling this out of my ass?

  5. The only question to ask here is just who is that person behind ThatSexBlog,for that blogger sure sounds like a Kennan Ivory Wayans character from a IN LIVING COLOR episode.

  6. Darrah Ford says:

    She never updated again after that first post and video. I always assumed she’s from the forum because one of her first posts is about Monica & she mentions that forum & her first Youtube video is about Monica. So I always assumed the person is from the forum. I also sent the person a DM on Twitter and she hasn’t replied in over a week. So I don’t know why start a blog to go through all of that to just put out one video.

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