Monica Foster has been quoted in mainstream sites today since Mike South broke the story this week of AIM’s database being compromised. She’s trying to portray herself as a victim of PWL though she fails to mention that she was an active forum member there and never saw a problem with what they were doing to all the women in this industry.
I had warned Monica about the forum owner and many of the things he had done to so many women. She was upset and had no idea. To my surprise, she later joined the forum anyway and became an active member using her porn name. Now here’s a black female performer joining a sexist, racist, and homophobic porn forum. This forum posts personal information on porn stars and they also notify their families and their mainstream jobs telling them what they do for a living. Why would Monica join this forum after being warned about them?
Monica saw no problem with this forum and became an active member. She then started complaining that this forum started to post her real name, address, phone number, her family member’s names, address, phone numbers, and criminal records. This forum was now doing to her the same exact thing she had seen them doing to all the other women in this industry. She’s then on her Twitter saying she wanted to die, she wants to kill herself, they’re trying to kill her, she’s reporting them to the police & FBI, and her family won’t talk to her because she’s embarrassed them.
So there I am trying to help Monica pick up the pieces and I was trying to give her advice as to how to stop that forum and get them shut down. I sent her all these links and told her who to call and contact. She wouldn’t listen. The reason why that forum turned on her is because she wouldn’t give them a copy of the $1,000 bounced check that Lenny Dykstra had given her. They wanted a copy of that check for their forum. She was trying to get the check from the bank but it was taking some time.
After Lenny wrote Monica a bogus check for $1,000 after hiring her as an escort, she rightfully so went public with this information trying to warn other escorts to stay away from him. Her story got a lot of big mainstream press and I felt this was her big chance of trying to cash in and make as much money as she can as quickly as possible before it became old news and they went on to the next story.
Monica did two RadarOnline interviews but was never paid for them. I tried to help her and told her she needed to hire a publicist. I told her to contact Roger T. Pipe at Pipeline Multimedia for representation. I told Monica how Tiki Pavelle also works there and how I assumed she knows Tiki because she now writes a new column for AINews, where Tiki also works at. So I thought this is perfect, she needs to quickly call Roger, and try to make as much money as she can so she can finally afford to move which she had been trying to but couldn’t afford to. She never listened.
Monica’s life has now gone downhill after the Dykstra scandal because she wouldn’t give that forum a copy of the $1,000 check. The same forum she was warned about and knew fully well about what they were doing to everyone else. She’s now accusing everyone she can of either being out to get her or who the “real” owners of that forum are. She’s accused me, other porn bloggers, directors, producers, a homophobic doctor, and Shelley Lubben of plotting against her and/or being behind the forum.
Monica claims that I have a Hitleresqe agenda. The one that seems to have a Hitleresqe agenda is Monica herself. She seems to resemble a Nazi officer who stood by watching all the abuse but stood back, did nothing, and never did anything to help anyone. She went to that forum knowing full well what they were doing and didn’t see any problem with their actions. She only had a problem when they did to her what they had already been doing to everyone else.
Monica also claims I’m anti-porn and I label women as victims. I’ve never been anti-porn. I’m anti-industry, which she is too and has been very vocal about on her blogs. And why can’t I label anyone a victim? But here she is crying on her Twitter wanting to kill herself, putting herself out there as the only victim, and her next book will be about the abuse she’s suffered while in the industry.
Monica then started to blackmail & threaten me on Twitter saying if I didn’t apologize to HER, that she would reveal my “real identity.” Would someone ask this woman what exactly I ever did to her? I wish I had done something to her because it would make more sense than what’s happening now. She started this countdown on her Twitter that if I didn’t apologize, that she would go public about my identity. An anonymous post on PWL appeared claiming that I’m really porn star Dave Pounder. She then posted a link from her Twitter to this new blog entry of hers revealing who she believes I really am. This clearly shows that the faceless coward is really Monica Foster who is still a member of a forum she claims is trying to kill her. She is now an anonymous member of that forum though she claims she registers everywhere as herself.
The voices in Monica’s head are telling her I’m Dave Pounder. I also read on PWL that she had written Dave’s real name in her blog post but had later edited it out. She complains her identity is being posted on that forum but she sees no problem in posting “my real identity” regardless if she’s edited out Dave’s real name now. She went on that forum knowing full well what they were doing. You have no one to blame but yourself and you deserve everything they do to you. The only real victims in this particular case are your family members that you dragged into all of this. When you were repeatedly told not to walk into a lion’s den, don’t complain when they bite your head off.